I saw this great widget on the fring blog and decided I had to steal the idea. Fring, btw, is really cool & Ohad (my husband) and I were able to text chat when he was in Germany recently - me on the computer and him on his phone... Anyway. That wasn't the point.
Pretty much anyone who's reading this has been through the 2ww. I was wondering what your policy on testing is, so I put together this poll. It's anonymous :-)
Back to my homework that has to be in by midnight (it's almost 6pm)...
5 comments:
I never, ever, ever told my husband when I was going to test. I was afraid he'd think I was a complete psycho. (especially if he had any idea how OFTEN I tested!)
That's a fantastic widget.
I ticked the second - might. I'm not really into testing, but I did a couple of times last cycle, and certainly didn't ask first. The first test was negative, but several days before the b/t so I didn't bother mentioning it. The second was before beta #3 and I did mention it, but it didn't mean a lot by itself.
I would tell him if I got a test result I trusted, otherwise maybe, maybe not.
Bea
I usually tell him the results, but never that I am going to test. Love love love my husband but even with taharat hamishpocha he still doesn't know/remember what part of it actually correlates to my cycle.
I don't in general just because I don't want to stress him out with negative after negative, so I just wait till there is something to tell or that my period came so he can give me a hug :)
I can't imagine not telling him. He knows every step of the cycle, he knows exactly when beta is, I don't want to (well, I WANT to, but I don't want to) POAS, so I couldn't not tell him even if I wanted to. Er, didn't want to. Argh, hate those double negatives ;)
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