Still on the topic of adoption... If you ever considered adoption, what were your concerns? Would you have / did you go ahead with it? If not, why not? If you did, what things surprised you most?
Dee update: All's well. Now at about 11 weeks :-) They've even picked out a name (if it's a boy).
Also coming soon: Medical research reveals that lycopene improves male fertility in men who have a concentration of >5 million cells/ml. I first heard about this in 2000 or 2001 and have been recommending it to people as "something worth trying". It's nice to see that the research has shown its effects to be statistically significant.